Sleepovers - Do People Still Do This?

As we get into the full swing of the year, we are already preparing and finalising paperwork for our Term 3 camps. School camp is a significant milestone for many children - an exciting adventure and a test of independence. One way to help prepare them is through sleepovers in familiar, safe environments. A successful night away from home can build confidence, resilience and a sense of readiness for the challenges of camp life. But when is the right time for a sleepover and how can parents ensure it’s a positive experience?

When is the right time?

Every child is different, but ideally, they should be confident enough to voice discomfort if needed. Setting clear family boundaries—such as only having sleepovers with close relatives or waiting until a certain age—can help children feel secure and prepared.

The pros and cons

Sleepovers can help children develop independence, resilience and appreciation for how other families operate. They also provide plenty of fun memories! We all remember sleeping over at a relative or friend's house. However, homesickness, lack of sleep and potential exposure to unfamiliar environments or media are valid concerns. Parents must trust their instincts and ensure their child’s safety.

Tips for a smooth experience

• Start small – A sleepover at their grandparents’ or a trusted friend’s home can be a great first step.
• Alternative options – Consider late playdates or dinner visits instead of an overnight stay.
• Know the hosts – Be proactive in getting to know the family your child will be staying with.
• Keep communication open – Parents might take the opportunity to go out to dinner (while the child is away) but make sure you’re still available and accessible.

We desire that children experience being away from home before heading off for camp. There’s no rush (it’s only Term 1). What matters most is ensuring your child feels safe, secure, ready for a sleepover and prepared for camp.